how to train  your child???

When I was a child I remember mothers at that time were concerned about child’s health an education but not frantically depressed, suppressed by pressures like today’s mothers. Today we face too many challenges regarding upbringing, training, educating the child and it sometimes leads mother and child both to disaster!
gone are the days when beating up was a culture to control your kids… today’s kids are more open to reasoning and logical discussions and they simply refuse to stand beatings and misbehaviors. Parents especially mothers have to be well equipped with the knowledge that is helpful in training a child. I have seen mothers panic and depressed when child’s not eating, (I used to do the same btw),
depressed when child’s not getting good grades,
depressed when he is misbehaving, let me tell you one thing depression is not going to take you any where….(not asking you to ignore misbehavior, poor grades or health issues just calm down relax, take a deep breath and change your attitude to cope with these issues)
 because
depressed mother= unhappy child
I know you guys must be thinking how can we keep calm when child is creating fuss all over misbehaving in presence of guests (embarrassing I knowJ).
Now tell me one thing do you read instructional manual when u buy something like camera, mobile anything that comes with manual????
Now ask yourself why do you read it???

Obviously to use the product better…. Similarly humans, kids deserved to be studied, observed before we start expecting from them to behave according to our will, expectations.
You need to know physical, emotional, mental states and needs of a child from the very beginning (I learned all these by studying various educationists and psychologists)